Choose a Red Tomato

As we stared outside this morning at a dreary, gray sky dear Husband said, “We get to choose what kind of day we will have. We can choose to be happy.”  Although a native Oregonian, he has lived in sunny climes long enough as he says, “to know better than to like the gray.” But…

Happier

A few days ago we attended a talk by an American who has lived with his family in a third-world country for the past 13 years.  He remarked that if they had allowed it, the corruption, theft, and poverty there would have torn them down.  But they had an anecdote.  I thought about all the…

Empowered

  As a young woman, I had my life planned out for several years ahead.  I was nearing graduation from a three-year training program for international service and had been accepted at a prestigious college in the Boston area where I planned to finish my degree.  My Summer was to be spent in a study…

When We’re Criticized

  Ever been accused of something and you just wanted to defend yourself?  Convince the other party that you’re right?  That their accusation is wrong?  Fight for yourself?  Yep, me too.  That’s called Ego.  Our pride bristles at criticism.  So we can cross swords and fight back or we can refuse to engage and find…

A Little Immigrant

This is the story of a Russian immigrant family- the oldest of their three daughters was only 8 years old when they arrived in the U.S.  They had been granted asylum in Israel when they first fled Russia.  Through the help of Amnesty International, an American church was contacted with the request for a sponsor…

How to Be Happier in 2018 Part 2

Our youngest son’s wife saw a need in our family.  She sensed that one of her husband’s sisters, our daughter, was in need of coming home and being loved on.  She initiated a plan to get her sister-in-law and family here from 3/4 of a continent away.  She arranged for tickets, offered her own home…